According to the scriptures when God instructed Adam what to do and what not to do, whatever happened is because the man and the woman were not alone and they had no one to consult even in church man and woman should seat together.
There are three institutions when God created the world, family first and family last. And the second is church.
That’s why you see the God of Abraham became the God of Isaac and Jacob, He is the God of families.
The church with so many couples is the church that is going forward.
Ephesians 5:22-33
22 Wives, submit yourselves to your own husbands as you do to the Lord. 23 For the husband is the head of the wife as Christ is the head of the church, his body, of which he is the Savior. 24 Now as the church submits to Christ, so also wives should submit to their husbands in everything.
25 Husbands, love your wives, just as Christ loved the church and gave himself up for her 26 to make her holy, cleansing[a] her by the washing with water through the word, 27 and to present her to himself as a radiant church, without stain or wrinkle or any other blemish, but holy and blameless. 28 In this same way, husbands ought to love their wives as their own bodies. He who loves his wife loves himself. 29 After all, no one ever hated their own body, but they feed and care for their body, just as Christ does the church— 30 for we are members of his body. 31 “For this reason a man will leave his father and mother and be united to his wife, and the two will become one flesh.”[b] 32 This is a profound mystery—but I am talking about Christ and the church. 33 However, each one of you also must love his wife as he loves himself, and the wife must respect her husband.
What are dos and donts of the family. What does God think about the family.
Wives submit to your husbands, on weddings people feed each other and that’s where it stops.
Submit to your husband where ever you are, in church, at home etc
Whatever you feed in the family is what you get out. No matter how rich you are than your husband or older. You have to submit to him.
Submissive is very important. Submission is a job as a wife. Listen to your husband. Husband is the head of the wife. If the husband becomes the feet then there is a problem. It is a responsibility.
The man is the brain or the head of the family, he is the head of the family who thinks for the family.
If there is something you want to do and the husband object it then doesn’t wrestle with him just submit to him.
Husbands love your wife as Christ loves the church. Women want to be loved and appreciated. Those are some attributes that God put in them.
Men tell your wives that you love them daily morning and evening. That’s what women wanted even if you have nothing they won’t complain.
Eph. 6: 1-4
6 Children, obey your parents in the Lord, for this is right. 2 “Honor your father and mother”—which is the first commandment with a promise— 3 “so that it may go well with you and that you may enjoy long life on the earth.”[a]
4 Fathers,[b] do not exasperate your children; instead, bring them up in the training and instruction of the Lord.
Children respect your parents. Be good to them. It is good every child to get a chance to get a chance and be with their parents. I appreciate the boarding schools and teachers but these are foreigners who you are entrusting their child with. You have to be with them eat with them and instill values in them.
I know the husband and wife have different decisions concerning the children because you don’t pray together. You have to pray together and seat together in church.
Job 1: 1-5
1 In the land of Uz there lived a man whose name was Job. This man was blameless and upright; he feared God and shunned evil. 2 He had seven sons and three daughters, 3 and he owned seven thousand sheep, three thousand camels, five hundred yoke of oxen and five hundred donkeys, and had a large number of servants. He was the greatest man among all the people of the East.
4 His sons used to hold feasts in their homes on their birthdays, and they would invite their three sisters to eat and drink with them. 5 When a period of feasting had run its course, Job would make arrangements for them to be purified. Early in the morning he would sacrifice a burnt offering for each of them, thinking, “Perhaps my children have sinned and cursed God in their hearts.” This was Job’s regular custom.
You are responsible for those people that are under your custody. How much have you preached to them, can they see you and be born again and say surely it is because of your great leadership and dedication to God that I got saved.
If you are not smart, the world is smart and it will beat you up and you won’t understand.
If your child goes away, look for him or her and bring them back home. All of us are still children and until you are 30 years because our model is Jesus.
Most men don’t men don’t want to marry women who are renting by themselves belong to a family.
Children must be born again, you follow the God of your parents. If you are born why do you disobey you are parents. You have to be obey your parents.
Parents love your children, teach them and tell them what to do and what not to do, teach them the bible. Don’t let your children override you.
This year we are going to change everything lets focus on the family and god will bless us. The church doesn’t be well without functioning families.
We all need families and we can not grow without one whether blood relatives or adopted families we all need one.
